It is incredible how often I hear things like:
“𝘐 𝘤𝘢𝘯’𝘵 𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘐 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭, 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘥𝘦𝘧𝘦𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘷𝘦.”
“𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘔𝘜𝘚𝘛 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘤𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨.”
“𝘐 𝘤𝘢𝘯’𝘵 𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘐 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘶𝘳𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴, 𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘮𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘳𝘺.”
𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙘𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙪𝙥 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙬𝙚𝙚𝙠!
During one of their sessions, we were exploring some feelings my client was having about a situation she and her husband are dealing with.
She is feeling aggravated…. and he has no idea.
She feels like he isn't putting her first…. and he has no idea.
She has feelings that she shared with me that he has no idea about! While I am so pleased that my clients feel so comfortable to share their deepest feelings with me, it is also my commitment to them to help them discover how to share their feelings with the people who matter most.
Communication is becoming a dying art. Do you agree?
It seems so many people are on the defense these days. It’s like survival mode vs. survival mode – a fight to the death. It is rare that conflicting opinions can be discussed without someone getting hurt, offended, angry or shut down. This is such a shame. More often than not people could come to an understanding, compromise or agreement without any conflict at all.
𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐚 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐟𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚 𝐟𝐞𝐰 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐝𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.
I went over the mindset piece with my clients to see if we could change what she felt could be possible. Then, as I asked her few questions, I watched her expression soften and her body posture change to one of happiness. It was like the clouds parted and the sun was shining down to help her see through all the darkness. Through these questions and conversation, it began to not only feel possible but now she was excited to have a conversation with her husband to share her feelings.”
𝘋𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵? 𝘌𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺, 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵?
𝐈 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 “𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭𝐬” 𝐭𝐨 𝐒𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮.
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